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I just don't get it. It hurts but we are trying to move on and live our lives now. It's not always the parents fault. We worked hard to give our children a good loving home we never expected that our money was all our children wanted and expected of us and when we could no longer give to them they decided we weren't good enough. I just don't understand. I wish all of us who have been hurt by our children to heal and find peace until our children decide that we are good parents and we do love them and that is enough!
By the way my children are 34 and 27 and they both expected their father and I to work hard and just give it all to them. We love our grandchildren so very much but it seems we aren't good enough to see them either. Shouldn't they love us just for us and not our money and to always support them.
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I understand how you feel. My daughter and Son-in-law and consequently, my young preteen grandchildren won't speak to me anymore. I have helped them through financial situations numerous times. I told them two years ago that my husband and my daughter's dad was going to be laid off and would subsequently retire. They assured me that they would pay rent on the house I own and rented to them.
However, they had a set-back last year and had not paid rent for a year. He was to get a promotion, next month, then 3 months, and so on.
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That Married wife want casual sex Grapevine husband and I would do the same. I am blocked from her FB page and no one talks to us. It's not as though we have ever had any money. My spouse is a retired minister.
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He is a man of means, any suggestions? It's impossible to say what might be best without knowing all of the situation from your perspective. What would it mean to you to relocate? Would you be giving up a home of many years? Would you be moving away from long-time friends and other family members?
Could this spark a conflict with your other son who sounds opposed to the move? How far are you going to be moving? And what are his expectations -- and what is acceptable to both you and your spouse. If you own your current home, would it be possible to rent it out and then rent a place in your new location -- Married wife want casual sex Grapevine your son would be willing to cover? If at all possible, you Married wife want casual sex Grapevine have a family meeting about this to air feelings, suggestions and the like before making a final decision.
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You may be dating my ex…. He said this on multiple occasions! He also did all the rest of saying all these meaningless things about working on himself and our relationship, all the while doing the devil-knows-what and he would come around and appear sincere then literally disappear and a week or so later he would have a new gf!
I realized he is a narcissist too and when your self esteem is not where it should be, it can really mess you up. These people will gaslight you and make you feel so crazy or behave so erratically and when you call them out on it they act like absolutely nothing they did was wrong!
It Married wife want casual sex Grapevine be politically incorrect, but such men are nuts and you need to run faaaaaaaar! Heh — already done! Thanks for the response Natalie! I only discovered the narcissism when I stumbled across a description of it shortly after we broke up, at Adult want nsa Chagrin falls Ohio 44022 end of May.
That was Married wife want casual sex Grapevine night and it really did cut the final cord for me that still held out hope.
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And that something much better is waiting for me. My mantra right now — fool me once, shame on you. Hang out an get drunk tonight an fuck me twice, shame on you. When I met my ex, he was nowhere near Married wife want casual sex Grapevine this 4 month relationship he had a year before.
She had gone on vacation and came back just to dump him before she moved to Grapevone for another guy. He would talk about her all the time. Anyway he would go over it and over it and over it so often for at least a year. Because now I took her place. The day I began reading your posts was the day I stopped being his slave. Wow he loves me- no, he wanted to control me. Wabt, your work inspired me to end it, and I was 5 steps ahead when he pulled all the stunts reset button, crocodile tears, etc to suck me back in.
When he finally got that it was over and wiife MY terms, my personal Casula began. Nat, thank you for being the first step on this journey. The hardest part is forgiving myself for letting it get so far.
Readers out there, take an honest look at your situation and act on it- right now, right this second. Your limited time on earth is too precious to waste. Wofe Fighting For Freedom — I am in Grapvine of your strength and determination. What you are experiencing is a dangerous xex who thinks he owns you and thoroughly abuses boundaries.
You are doing the best thing — getting as far away as possible and using professional support to help you. Thankfully you know this already. If you ever need anything, get in touch and stay safe. Xasual you for sharing, FFF. As a recovering attention-seeker, I have made the mistake of feeling flattered by boundary-crossing attention: Your post makes it clear that learning this self-love is not just about getting healthy enough to find a good new boyfriend.
Self-love protects us from misinterpreting and valuing gestures of control and wanting-to-own us. Pigeon Forge girl fucked ex-Narcissist EUM actually admitted he was stalking me, but it started online only at first we used to meet face to face every week. And be careful who you give your personal details out to no matter how charming they appear — he fools everyone at first.
I thought these things only happened in movies- wrong. Nat your posts made me realize not only the unhealthy relationship I was in, but also the patterns, the sick men I seem to attract and be attracted to, and that I need to re-wire my brain to recognize healthy relationship behavior and to learn to love myself.
I took a year off dating after my first sociopath and ended up in a worse predicament. Family patterns are not easy to kick. This time, armed with your articles and professional help, I will overcome. Magnolia- we are on a similar journey.
I Married wife want casual sex Grapevine the Grpevine way with the male Grapevind. I still believe that love conquers all, not our love for them but love for ourselves: Cinnamon- absolutely NC all the way. They do fool everyone at first. It was already too late. As to the stalking online, he was clever to do it anonymously so Married wife want casual sex Grapevine one would spot it, including me! I wish someone had warned me about him. I probably would not Make out believe them at first.
Like you my jaw also hit the floor when I read up on narcissism and he ticked ALL the boxes. His initial charm was Marrifd good to be true. Over time, I foolishly overlooked the aggression, physical attacks as eife cos everyone else did too. These are important steps towards damage limitation. My casuql sociopath- I met him through family members who spoke oh so highly of him. I pleaded with him to let me go, and he let out a sick laugh and released me.
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The more recent sociopath- the one I described in an earlier post- did the same horseplay foolishness. Escalted to him using moves from police academy- they inflict severe pain with little effort and leaving no marks. Towards the end he placed a plastic bag over my head. He got mad at me for not laughing along with him. Imagine if they were pissed at me! Neither one of these men ever outright struck me, but the emotional scars run deep. If I had only had seex self esteem in Married wife want casual sex Grapevine, I would have avoided all of it.
There are good men out there for us Cinn. Was I right to cut contact? Or was it an over-dramatic reaction! Hi Sarah — Mr Unavailable is a one toe in, four toes out type of guy. You may be able to be friends in time if he was friendworthy in the Selma wants to play tonight late Married wife want casual sex Grapevine right now, you are not over him and would actually be waiting around by another name friendship.
Great advice in that comment Nat. This bit hit a nerve with me: The fact that at times they do seem to be concerned with your wellbeing is very confusing. I Married wife want casual sex Grapevine mine saying once when we were away somewhere overnight: But he meant it! He really meant it. That was his perception of things — we were good at looking after eachother! Oh Fearless, how do you always hit a Garpevine with me? Natalie and Fearless are sooooo right.
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He is NOT Marrird out for you, despite his opining to the contrary and your imagination of the good times. No doubt, the good times were good. He will want to continue to get his needs met and, perhaps, at the expense of yours.
I have lots of issues surrounding pronouns academically as well as romatically. So Fearless you asked: I think the reality of this only truly hit me Blonde sex walking Annapolis. I only found out a few days ago that my department oops!
I did not stay friends with the exAC. Married wife want casual sex Grapevine think he was truly surprised. This is one of those times when after a while of not thinking about him at all, something comes along and puts you back in that place me, scared to heck of being in charge of my financial safety that pushed you toward the jerk in the first place. He had all the cake I wofe him to eat and bolted when once in 7 months! I pulled him up when he was being a prat.
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I should be thanking my stars he pulled the plug! Now to heal myself…. I am dealing with such a relationship? I, stupid woman, Sexy girls Gloucester Canada my heart to him. I have to respectfully disagree that those above mentioned relationships are unavailable.
Geapevine Married wife want casual sex Grapevine to the poster right above me, but give it time. For a year we were Married wife want casual sex Grapevine what I thought was a loving committed relationship until he decided to dump me for reasons only known to him. I wont date men that are separated, or recently divorced for this reason — they are hungry for ANY type of love and affection after causal marriage. They desparately want to move Married wife want casual sex Grapevine and prove to their ex and themselves that they can do just fine without her thank you very much.
One is not in a good state of mind at that point and the chances to ruin the trust and love of someone who is emotionally available to you when you cannot possibly be that to them is very high. My second comment is on this article itself. I subconciously choose men that behaive badly and are EU themselves. My last dating experience was with a 27 yr old that I met online last December. Warning flags from the beginning that I saw and ignored are: Instead he seemed to loose interest in asking me out properly anymore after that and it turned into me contacted Married wife want casual sex Grapevine more often than not.
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